Ruth: A Story of Life, Loss, and Faith
Summer Pulpit Exchange 2012
So who here has a brown or browning lawn? Who here has fields of corn that are beginning to wither up because rain has decided to take a vacation this summer? Who here is beginning to wonder and worry about what this year is going to bring, or maybe more accurately, not bring? I know that I have been simply amazed driving to and from
and seeing all the grass and fields turning brown as if it were preparing for
winter. I heard that this summer nearly 2/3rds
of the Midwest is experiencing drought this
summer. This is definitely looking to be
a lean year.
I come to you all this day to present to you all one of my favorite stories of the Bible and say a few words. Way back in May, I decided on the story of Ruth, Naomi, and Boaz. This story begins with a few words that I think we all can somewhat identify with this summer. "In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land..." This is what sets the context for our story this morning. Naomi has found herself in a foreign land, because her husband decided to move to where there was a possibility of food. Only now, her husband has died. She is a widow whose sons have even died, and she is only left with two daughters-in-law.
(read Ruth 1:6-22)
By all accounts of what we know about Ancient Middle Eastern society, being a widow was hard. But being a widow who is the mother-in-law of two widows must have been worse. So not only is Naomi grieving the death or her husband and her two sons, but she is also being faced with the prospect trying to provide for her life and the life of Ruth and Orpah without status and without claim to property. She in final talk with these daughters-in-law even counts herself amongst the dead. Naomi feels as if there is no hope for herself, and that's why she even decides to change her name from Pleasant to Bitter. Naomi literally means pleasant in Hebrew. Mara literally means bitter.
Yet in all this bitterness a glimmer of something wonderful begins to shine. We get to meet Ruth. We get to meet someone who either loves Naomi so much as a mother or feels a dutiful commitment to her that she cannot turn away and leave her. Ruth clings to Naomi. Ruth will not abandon her. This makes me think. What are the things we will cling to in our lives? What would be so important to us that we would never let that go?
Whatever the answers to those questions might be, I see something yet still in these opening verses of Ruth's story. Clinging to Naomi is also clinging to Naomi's God. A huge part of what Ruth displays is that what is important to her is her faith in God. She puts total trust of her life in her God, even if her God only seems to deal in bitterness. But is God only a god of bitterness and sorrow?
Even though the answer may seem to be yes, based upon our story so far, I'm certain that the answer to that question is indeed, "No." Ruth and Naomi are on a journey, and that journey is not over yet.
Sing verse 1 of "Lord Jesus, You Shall Be My Song"
Read Ruth Chapter 2:1-13
Who here has ever been so hungry that your only chance for food comes from picking up the leftovers from a field that has just been harvested? This is such the situation that Naomi and Ruth find themselves in. Naomi is a widow without place or power. Naomi can't even have children, so the prospect of re-marrying is off the table for her. Ruth is also a widow, but she is a foreigner. The only hope of a meal is literally picking through the leftovers, going through someone else's trash essentially. Their journey has taken a bitter turn indeed, but Ruth does not waver in her commitment to stand by and care for Naomi.
I recently had the pleasure to accompany some youth from the Blair-Taylor area on a Youthworks mission trip. We went to Heart Butte, Montana. Now the thing about Heart Butte you must realize is that this small town rests in the middle of the Blackfeet Indian Reservation. If you were only to look around, you would see that life in the town of
Heart Butte is not an
easy one. In our time there, the marks
of poverty, unemployment, alcoholism, addiction, and abuse were easily
seen. Yet, one thing struck me as I
reflected on what we were doing there painting houses, cleaning up yards, and
working with children in an afternoon Bible school: We may not have fixed everything for these
people once and for all time, but in our service, they at least were able to
see that they weren't unloved. That they
weren't forgotten. That they still
somehow mattered. And when we were
helping one particular family, the grandmother said, "Thank you so much
for helping. I don't know if I could
ever have begun to do these things. You
all make me feel like I still matter in the world."
And maybe that's where this story of Ruth and Naomi is going. Maybe their journey is taking them to a place where they can see that they aren't forgotten and are taken notice of and loved. And that's the great thing that Boaz does for Ruth and Naomi. By taking notice of Ruth, Boaz says to her and her beloved mother-in-law, "You are worthy of love and compassion." In effect, Boaz says to them, "I see you. I have not forgotten you."
That is one of the most powerful things that our God does for us. Our God has indeed made a claim upon us and our lives in our baptisms, and God has said to each and every one of us, "You are mine, and I will not let you go." Life indeed can take us down some bitter roads. But we have that promise that God will be by our sides every step of the way. That doesn't mean that it's all feather pillows and gumdrops for us for the rest of our lives, but it does mean that even in our darkest times our God gives us tremendous hope of new life. God will be with us on our journey.
Sing verse two of "Lord Jesus, You Shall Be My Song"
Read Ruth 3:1-13
Okay. Sometimes feet are just feet. We have come to the part of out story which Ruth and Boaz finally have their midnight encounter. Could you heavily sexualize what is going on here? I suppose you could, but I think you would be missing the point of this scene. This midnight encounter is not in the Bible so it can be more exciting to read. Rather than call this a tawdry scene full of innuendo, I see this scene of Ruth coming to Boaz in the middle of the night as a scene of intimate love and affection that goes far beyond sex. What Ruth does here for Boaz is care and comfort him and show him that she is as committed to him as she is committed to Naomi.
So often in today's world we can get caught up in only thinking about what we can get out of relationships. And this certainly goes beyond our romantic relationships. We want our friends to show us a good time. We want our friends to help us make more money. We want our friends to help us advance along our career paths. We want friends so that they can add something to our lives. And it seems to me that that is an awfully selfish view of friendship and romantic companionship to only think of the other as a means to an end. It seems to me that we should spend time considering what we bring to the relationship, how we can make someone else's life better.
That's what I see Ruth doing here. I see her finding a way to comfort and care for Boaz in his weariness. You could make a case that Ruth is scheming with Naomi to get her proverbial slice of the pie, but why does Boaz consider what Ruth does here as loyal service? Boaz reckons what Ruth does as loyalty, because even with all the other options of young men available to her, Ruth cares and comforts Boaz. What she does is love and care for another.
It seems to me that Ruth's love and care is a reflection of the love and care that our God has for Boaz and has for us. I think that's what steals Boaz's heart in the end. He sees God's steadfast love in the face, hands, and feet of Ruth. Is that not what we should show forth in our lives? Should we not show forth the steadfast love that God ahs shown us?
Sing verse three of "Lord Jesus, You Shall Be My Song"
Read Ruth 4:9-12
In the end, the story works out. Naomi and Ruth have been welcomed into a new situation in which they will be loved and cared for. Even though Boaz uses the traditional language of ownership, he takes Ruth as his wife with heart and eyes wide open happy to love and care for someone who loves and cares for him. And Ruth and Boaz conceive a Son. Do you know who that Son is? The son is the father of Jesse, who is the father of David, who the Gospels of Matthew and Luke trace Jesus' lineage to. And that Son, would be the Son who give everything, even his own life, so that the whole world might be redeemed and know the depth of God's love. You see in the end, this story is a story about faith. It's a story about what God is up to in the world. When we see what God is up to, that God is in the business of giving love and forgiveness to the whole, we see that the one who we trust is the one who gives us hope even in the midst of bitterness, sin, and death. We see that our God has not and will not abandon us. We are God's own children and there is no power in heaven or on earth or above earth or below earth that can separate us from that love. Our journey is a journey of faith in the one who gives us life.
Faith is not simply the unwavering belief that God is going to make everything better in our lives. Faith is the trust that the one who made us and gave us the breath of life is the one who will love, guard, and guide us even through the bitter twists and turns of life. Faith is clinging to God even when it might seem easier to turn away forsake the journey. Faith is something that calls us to love and care for others in our life. Faith is that life centering trust that no matter what may happen to us, our God loves us and always will us and will bring us into new life, even through our death.
Sing verse four of "Lord Jesus, You Shall Be My Song"